How to get invited

Ménage is a private community, but you don't need to know a current member to join. You need to be a real person, over 18, with a genuine interest in this lifestyle and the community around it.

Every application is reviewed personally. That's the point: it keeps the community made of people who belong in it. If you were referred by a member, tell us who; we may check with them. If you're new and don't know anyone yet, say so, and tell us a little about yourself so we can establish your bona fides. We may email you with a question or two before approving.

Verification is done by a human and normally takes up to 48 hours. When you're approved, you'll receive a welcome email.

Something went wrong with your submission — please check your answers and try again. Every field except phone is required, and the verification picture must be a JPG, PNG, or GIF under 8 MB. If it keeps happening, email us and a human will sort it out.

* Required. Everything here is required except phone.

About you The name you go by * Many of us are known in the community by a chosen name. This is how you'll be known here. Legal first name * As it appears on your ID. Used only for verification and accountability, and never shown to anyone in the community. We know the name on your ID may not be the name you live by; the name you go by above is how you'll be known here. Legal last name * Email * Phone

I affirm I am 18 years of age or older. *

Establishing your bona fides How did you hear about us? If it was a community member, please let us know who! * What Lifestyle groups are you a member of? Please check all/any that apply.

Epic

Canadian Lifestyle

Pineapples

KNetic

Fet

A.S.K.

AKC

K-E-A-N

None

Other / Not Listed

Tell us which

Is there any information you'd like to share which will help us establish your bona fides? * Examples might be your Facebook URL, your Fetname URL, or other community members who might vouch for you. Verification picture * A clear photo of you holding a handwritten note with the word "Ménage" and today's date. This is how we know you're really you, and not a photo borrowed from someone else's profile. It is completely non-judgmental: this isn't a profile picture, nobody else will ever see it, and it doesn't need to be a glamour shot. Just recognizably, really you. Stored privately, seen only by the person doing the verification, and never shown to the community.

Your account Choose a password * At least 10 characters. Your email and this password are your member login once you're approved.